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How come people want to protect marriage from the gheys?
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How come people want to protect marriage from the gheys?


Mar 27, 2013, 4:28 PM

But no one seems to want to protect it from the straights?

Seems like more people would be up in arms wanting to outlaw divorce.

Someone drop some social "science" on me.

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Gheys are gross - that seems to be one argument***


Mar 27, 2013, 4:29 PM



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If you consider them gross, are they more gross if


Mar 27, 2013, 6:06 PM

married?

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I don't consider them gross, I love the gheys


Mar 28, 2013, 11:34 AM

However, certain section of the population considers them gross and icky. Generally this is the same section that also bangs their cousins.

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No kiddin...


Mar 27, 2013, 4:31 PM

Then kids would be forced to be raised by both their own biological parents so they won't turn ghey....amidoinitrite.

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Wait, wut?


Mar 27, 2013, 4:35 PM

My adopted son is ghey?!?!?

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Yes...according to the below topic


Mar 27, 2013, 4:38 PM

which is true because its on the internet...your adopted son is ghey. You may now get a divorce if you'd like.

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Re: Yes...according to the below topic


Mar 27, 2013, 5:04 PM

Good lowered, guy. You have a talent for finding things in an argument that aren't there.

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Many want to make getting out of divorce harder.


Mar 27, 2013, 4:40 PM

I believe Cam has talked about that in the past. (I don't want to speak for him, so realize I may be wrong about that)

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ugh. I meant getting a divorce.***


Mar 27, 2013, 4:41 PM



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Maybe we should make getting married harder for everybody.***


Mar 27, 2013, 4:44 PM



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You mean I can't get married by a drunk Elvis


Mar 27, 2013, 4:46 PM

You sir are a communist and hate America

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This is our greatest American:


Mar 27, 2013, 4:48 PM

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/4796811/Grandmother-is-most-married-woman-after-tying-the-knot-23-times.html


Grandmother is 'most married woman' after tying the knot 23 times
American grandmother Linda Wolfe has become "the most married woman in the world" after walking down the aisle 23 times, and is now "on the lookout for number 24".

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you're right...


Mar 27, 2013, 5:03 PM [ in reply to Many want to make getting out of divorce harder. ]

opposition to gay marriage comes from deeper convictions about nature and sexual ethics. This is partially why you see gay marriage and abortion being classified together as "social issues" (although the pro-life position is far more popular now than the pro-marriage position).

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because people are ignorant hypocrites***


Mar 27, 2013, 4:41 PM



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this also applies to leftists who support taxes and


Mar 27, 2013, 4:42 PM

regulations for "the rich" - suddenly "equal rights" doesn't matter any more when talking about "the rich"

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The rich are ghey


Mar 27, 2013, 4:43 PM

Fact

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If you are interested, here is some thoughts I have shared


Mar 27, 2013, 4:55 PM

in some conversations on this today:

As a Christian, I believe that man and/or government has about as much right to redefine what composes the institution of marriage as they do the right to redefine the composition of water. However, in reaction to those opposed to natural law (i.e. even if people ignore special revelation, i.e. the Bible, you have to work hard to ignore natural law when it comes to God's design of man and woman; though ignoring it is to be expected by an unbelieving world; see Romans 1:18-32), Congress and the states sought to protect the vulnerable foundation of our society with state constitutional amendments (31, over three fourths of the states have taken this extraordinary step), state laws (only New Mexico leaves it undefined), and the passage of DOMA.

There is a very real threat that states will be required to recognize other states' same-sex "marriages," either through misuse of the U.S. Constitution's full faith and credit clause or by judicial fiat.

Even when the first state in the nation had same-sex "marriage" foisted on it by the state supreme court, the Massachusetts court appealed to states-rights principles in defending its decision: "We would not presume to dictate how another State should respond to today's decision. But neither should considerations of comity prevent us from according Massachusetts residents the full measure of protection available under the Massachusetts Constitution. The genius of our Federal system is that each State's Constitution has vitality specific to its own traditions . . . ."

Millions of voters across the United States have voted to protect marriage in their state constitutions. Marriage predates government. Marriage is society's least restrictive means to ensure the well-being of children as well as society. State recognition of marriage protects children by encouraging men and women to commit to each other and to take responsibility for their children. It is the fundamental building block of all human civilization. Marriage has a public purpose that transcends its private purposes and that is why 41 states affirm that marriage is between a man and a woman.

Keep in mind, that our country was established on strong Judeo Christian values and influence. There was a recognition then and up until recently in our nation, that a country with strong marriages and families results in a healthy and strong country. Thus, the government and nation had vested interest in making marriage to be as attractive and beneficial as possible. Of course, our society has made a mess out of marriage in general (particularly "Christians") as our views and commitment to Covenant marriage have dwindled. And our society today suffers accordingly. My point is this, the upholding of marriage is not a civil rights or equality issue. Perhaps government should not have any hand in regulating or defining marriage, but should leave that to churches, but their reason for doing so in the manner they have done so throughout history was right and good. They knew it was the basic building block of a strong society.

Our government did not create marriage, they simply through natural law and logic and understanding, affirmed what had always been. And saw it as "good." Because it was good.

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Re: If you are interested, here is some thoughts I have shared


Mar 27, 2013, 4:59 PM

Based on the way things are today, I would prefer the government get out of the marriage conversation and legislation completely because this is headed nowhere good for our society. It is a really bad day when our country swings from promoting, supporting, and sanctioning marriage as designed and defined by God to promoting, supporting and sanctioning a view of marriage that contradicts God's design and definition. That is a radical swing. All indications are that the Government is not backing out of the marriage scene but are now getting even more involved because of secular progressive agendas. And we will likely see a continued re-defining of marriage in our society. Why not basic human and civil rights of marriage for 5 people together? Why not basic human and civil rights of marriage for a man and child? Why not basic human and civil rights for a person and their dog? There will be no end. Strip away the boundaries and regulations of marriage and you have nothing at all but rather anything goes.

Likewise, there is a deeper agenda here that secular progressives have and their strategy is becoming more and more clear. Their agenda is NOT smaller government. It is NOT basic human rights and equality. They want to remove Bible believing Christians from the conversation altogether. They want to remove any Biblical and Christian influence in our society. Already, anyone else who believes homosexuality to be sin and homosexual marriage to be wrong are being branded as "haters, bigots, and discriminators." What do you think will happen when State and Federal Governments rule that this as a basic equality and human rights issue? Those labels of "hater, bigot and discriminator" will become louder. And eventually churches and pastors and people will be asked to conform.

Furthermore, if they view this as a human rights issue, they will eventually knock on the church's door and say, "You may not preach that homosexuality is a sin. You may not preach against same sex marriage. You must conform and give the same right for a gay couple to marry in your church as a straight couple. And maybe even, you must marry them if requested." Do you think this is a stretch? Ask those private institutions battling the "contraceptive" provision issue with Healthcare for the sake of "reproductive rights and right to choose". It is coming.

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If there is any chance at all that I could possibly convince


Mar 27, 2013, 5:02 PM

you to translate that into aero and the t-mail this to me?

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I can.


Mar 28, 2013, 12:12 PM

My imaginary sky daddy does not like gay marriage and therefore I do not approve of it either.

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while I think there's a place for religious arguments...


Mar 27, 2013, 5:54 PM [ in reply to Re: If you are interested, here is some thoughts I have shared ]

like yours in the public debate, I don't think we do ourselves any favors in making that the center piece of our arguments. So I disagree a bit with your focus on "marriage as designed by God." That will never convince people who don't believe in the same God, or people who do believe in the same God but who don't think religion has a place in public life because its arguments rest on faith.

I do like that you say the redefinition of marriage to include same sex couples is actually more government involvement in marriage, not less. You would think that would be obvious when the definition of marriage is being changed to include anybody who loves each other, but a lot of people seem to think limiting marriage to a man and a woman is government intrusiveness.

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Re: while I think there's a place for religious arguments...


Mar 27, 2013, 8:07 PM

Giving insight into a perspective against same sex marriage. The practical argument to non biblical thinkers is natural law, marriage preceding government, foundational building block of a society, bigger government intrusion, and making something a human rights issue that is not a human rights issue.

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I think your perceived agenda is imagined.


Mar 27, 2013, 7:02 PM [ in reply to Re: If you are interested, here is some thoughts I have shared ]

How does gay marriage pose a threat? It doesn't affect married heterosexuals one bit. Why should a certain belief be forced on others when there is no affect on them? It's not like homosexuals will quit being homosexuals because they can't get married.

I'd give you the religious argument, but there are so many religious laws etc. that aren't followed side by side with the passages against homosexuality. So it seems like picking and choosing based a majority opinion.

The God I believe in is a God of love, not a God of condemnation. I'm for more love in this world, and will always affirm love.

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I think it affects society in a major way...


Mar 27, 2013, 8:21 PM

Same sex marriage will not impact the health of my marriage. It will affect our society just like no fault divorce has and the way the declining view of marriage among heterosexuals has.

Question...with you being all for love...what about 5 people that want to be married? What about 2 children? What about an adult and child? What about a man and dog? None of those arrangements would affect my marriage either.

Regarding Biblical matters, much more time is needed to talk through the various laws and how all that works in the context of the whole counsel of what I believe is God's Word. Im curious, what is the spiritual authority is that informs your view of God? i ask because Biblically there is love and justice; grace and wrath; justification and condemnation.

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Some of those things aren't consenting adults so are


Mar 28, 2013, 8:30 AM

immaterial to the argument. And wasn't polygamy OK in the Bible?

The condemnation of homosexuality was really an old testament mentality, which I think is more viewed as a history. The new testament and Jesus' teachings were more about love and moving away from the rigidity of the old testament.

Islam is a strict old testament religion, Christianity should not fall into that trap.

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Re: Some of those things aren't consenting adults so are


Mar 28, 2013, 9:23 AM

God designed and defined marriage (from my Biblical perspective) at Genesis 1:26-28, 2:20-24. Jesus affirms the same at Matthew 19:4-6. The Bible is transparent and honest about how messed up people were and are (even God's people). Thus, the need for redemption. Remember, Abram was a pagan idolater when God called him to himself. My point is that none of the polygamy seen in the Bible is affirmed by God and actually the destructive consequences of such behavior is plainly seen in families and to the nation of Israel. Polygamy was just another one of those evils in the world that many adopted as acceptable, but it was never affirmed by the Lord or His prophets or His apostles.

The idea that homosexuality is isolated to the OT is not Biblical. See Romans 1:18-32, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude 1:4-7 for specific reference and their are other passages that would imply this sin along with many others.

And Jesus never throws out the Old Testament. In Matthew 5:17, he says He did not come to abolish the law and the prophets but to fulfill them. And He did. He kept the Law perfectly for us and He fulfilled the prophecies as well, proving to be God in the flesh, and the only perfect and acceptable sacrifice for sins.

All of the Old Testament points to Jesus. Hebrews and other NT passages help clarify how the civil and ceremonial laws have been completed in Christ and so dietary, civil and sacrificial laws are no longer in play, though the general equity of them in principle are very helpful to us still.

The moral law is still in full effect and does three things: 1. Retrains evil in this messed up world 2. Shows us our need for Jesus the Savior of sinners (because we all fall short) 3. Guides and tutors us in all truth once we belong to Jesus.

Jesus coming was about salvation from sins for those He came to save, atoning for their sins, and freeing us from the wrath due to sin. Salvation and justification is 100% by grace through faith.

Jesus also calls us to sanctification (dying more and more to sin and living more and more to righteousness). And as He Himself confirmed the prophets we would do well to let Malachi's voice echo in our own ears, "Woe to those who call evil good and good evil,who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!" (Mal. 5:20) Since John 1 refers to Jesus as the Word who was in the Beginning and who became flesh and dwelt among us, we do well to remember that Malachi's words are the words of Jesus.

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While marriage is confirmed, polygamy is never condemned


Mar 28, 2013, 10:13 AM

In fact, it's quite common which means that there would be plenty of opportunity to condemn it.

It's really an issue of weight, why do Christians put so much weight into a "sin" that is only mentioned a few times in the Bible and often vaguely (there are passages that vaguely support homosexuality as well)?

Sexual immorality is as rampant amongst heterosexuals as it is against homosexuals. Sexual promiscuity and destructive behavior within homosexual relationships is a sin just as it is with heterosexuals. I just don't see defining love within a committed relationship between any two people a sin regardless of gender. And I don't think the Bible's intent was either. To me, it's a convenient opportunity for one group to push their evils off on another group. I guess I'm one to look internally at myself and not define how others should live.

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Just to clarify on polygamy...


Mar 28, 2013, 10:46 AM

Consider these passages:
Deut. 17:14-17: “I will set a king over me like all the nations that are around me,' “you shall surely set a king over you whom the LORD your God chooses; one from among your brethren you shall set as king over you; you may not set a foreigner over you, who is not your brother. But he shall not multiply horses for himself, nor cause the people to return to Egypt to multiply horses, for the LORD has said to you, 'You shall not return that way again.' “Neither shall he multiply wives for himself, lest his heart turn away; nor shall he greatly multiply silver and gold for himself.”
This command from God to not multiply wives (even for the King) is clear. We never see that reversed.

Case study: 1 Kings 11:3 says Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines violating the principle of monogamy that he was given through the law of Moses. Consider that Solomon at one time was the wisest man in the world. I Kings 11:4: “For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods"

Furthermore, Scripture has always affirmed monogamy (Ps.128:3; Prov. 5:18; 18:22; 19:14; 31:10-29; Eccl. 9:9; Hebrews 13:3-4).

Question: What passage(s) do you speak of that vaguely support homosexuality? That would be a first for me.

You are spot on in regards to heterosexual sin. We are not off the hook on that at all! Thus, the need for the salvation and sanctification that come only through God's Word and Spirit. My goodness, Jesus blew the lid off of our sexual sin issues in Matthew 5:28 in that adultery includes 'looking lustfully at another.' He did not "loosen" up things on ethics, he tightened them up more and in doing so Jesus showed us how much MORE desperately we are in need of His saving grace than we ever imagined!

I am so thankful for the gospel of grace that saves a wretch like me. And I am thankful for God's Word and Spirit that does not leave me where I am in my sin. See Romans 6. And I am thankful that there is the hope of salvation and transformation for one like me who has struggled with heterosexual sin and for the one who struggles with homosexual sin as well. But the repentant heterosexual sinners and the repentant homosexual sinner should never call their evil good.

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Off the top of my head...


Mar 28, 2013, 11:26 AM

David & Jonathon (Jonathon loved him as himself) and Naomi & Ruth (Ruth loved Naomi as Adam loved Eve).

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Anyone teaching a homosexual situation...


Mar 28, 2013, 11:49 AM

out of either of those relationships is doing what is called "isogesis" (reading into the text what they want to teach or defend) opposed to exegesis (bringing out from the text what is actually there).

I'm curious: what is the DRC/Uganda photo about? I'm currently pursuing adoption from the DRC.

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I've vacationed in Uganda and Rwanda and been along


Mar 28, 2013, 12:08 PM

the DRC border. I've always been fascinated by the Congo and read a lot on it's history. Hiking through the rain forest and mountains to reach the Congo was a huge thrill in my life (despite having spent the last two days in Gisenyi looking across the border to Goma). Hoping to go back in the fall to visit some of the connections we made while we were there (one is a pro-LGBT Ugandan pastor). Love it there (although we loved Ghana and West Africa more but didn't make as many personal connections).

Seems like both isogesis and exegesis are matters of opinion and interpretation. I'm not sure that any living man or woman really has any real answers when it comes to God or spirituality. I'd say that the pulling out of specific passages to back up any point of view is largely isogesis with context and focus often ignored. I'd really question anyone who claims to truly understand what is actually there. The meaning, right or wrong, is always tempered by personal opinion and experience.

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I think it comes down to how one views the Bible...


Mar 28, 2013, 12:42 PM

If the Bible (OT & NT) truly is the Word of God breathed. And then penned through man by the power of the Holy Spirit and preserved and canonized by God's providence through history; then it can be studied in its literary, historical and redemptive context and interpreted quite well (not to suggest that everything is crystal clear and not to suggest that there are not variant views on significant matters like Baptism and eschatology). That is what an exegetical approach seeks to do.

But you are right that far too many like to cut and paste in order to suit their agenda. I'm sure I have done that myself but I am intentional to correct myself when I do and have had several views change because of right exegesis.

If one views the Bible as a common book with no divine origin; Or if one views the Bible as a source that may include something from God in there...then we really got nothing more than incredibly preserved writings from antiquity.

Hebrews 10:17

Of course I side with the first view I mentioned. And my life is continually being reformed and transformed by God's Word and Spirit (Romans 12:1-2). And boy do I have a long way to go. Again, the gospel of grace of Jesus Christ(which the Scriptures all point to) if my only hope in life and death.

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As sins go, neither of them made the top ten!***


Mar 28, 2013, 1:04 PM [ in reply to While marriage is confirmed, polygamy is never condemned ]



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Polygamy was not OK in the Bible...


Mar 28, 2013, 9:23 AM [ in reply to Some of those things aren't consenting adults so are ]

God designed and defined marriage (from my Biblical perspective) at Genesis 1:26-28, 2:20-24. Jesus affirms the same at Matthew 19:4-6. The Bible is transparent and honest about how messed up people were and are (even God's people). Thus, the need for redemption. Remember, Abram was a pagan idolater when God called him to himself. My point is that none of the polygamy seen in the Bible is affirmed by God and actually the destructive consequences of such behavior is plainly seen in families and to the nation of Israel. Polygamy was just another one of those evils in the world that many adopted as acceptable, but it was never affirmed by the Lord or His prophets or His apostles.

The idea that homosexuality is isolated to the OT is not Biblical. See Romans 1:18-32, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude 1:4-7 for specific reference and their are other passages that would imply this sin along with many others.

And Jesus never throws out the Old Testament. In Matthew 5:17, he says He did not come to abolish the law and the prophets but to fulfill them. And He did. He kept the Law perfectly for us and He fulfilled the prophecies as well, proving to be God in the flesh, and the only perfect and acceptable sacrifice for sins.

All of the Old Testament points to Jesus. Hebrews and other NT passages help clarify how the civil and ceremonial laws have been completed in Christ and so dietary, civil and sacrificial laws are no longer in play, though the general equity of them in principle are very helpful to us still.

The moral law is still in full effect and does three things: 1. Retrains evil in this messed up world 2. Shows us our need for Jesus the Savior of sinners (because we all fall short) 3. Guides and tutors us in all truth once we belong to Jesus.

Jesus coming was about salvation from sins for those He came to save, atoning for their sins, and freeing us from the wrath due to sin. Salvation and justification is 100% by grace through faith.

Jesus also calls us to sanctification (dying more and more to sin and living more and more to righteousness). And as He Himself confirmed the prophets we would do well to let Malachi's voice echo in our own ears, "Woe to those who call evil good and good evil,who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!" (Mal. 5:20) Since John 1 refers to Jesus as the Word who was in the Beginning and who became flesh and dwelt among us, we do well to remember that Malachi's words are the words of Jesus.

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Mar 28, 2013, 9:25 AM

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Can you possibly explain to me why the bible be against


Mar 28, 2013, 11:31 AM [ in reply to Polygamy was not OK in the Bible... ]

folding paper into cute little animal shapes?

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It took a little while, but I knew someone would bring up


Mar 28, 2013, 11:29 AM [ in reply to I think it affects society in a major way... ]

marrying your dog and or any other animals.

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should definitely get rid of no fault divorce


Mar 27, 2013, 5:00 PM

but same sex marriage is just the fight du jour. I'd also note that it wasn't like the people who care about traditional marriage started this.

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You know what would be cool?


Mar 27, 2013, 5:05 PM

If divorce was settled by a gladiator fight. Of course the combatants would be equalized by their assigned weaponry in order to make it competitive.

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The minority who feels oppressed is always the 'starter'


Mar 27, 2013, 5:32 PM [ in reply to should definitely get rid of no fault divorce ]

I guess it doesn't have to be a minority, just ones who say they feel oppressed (ex. Christians).

Rarely do oppressors go, "hey, we probably should stop oppressing." There has to be a push to get them to relent (ex. Civil Rights)

I chortle at the thought of what the outcry would be if there was a push back against divorce. Who even would have the moral authority to lead that charge?

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Re: The minority who feels oppressed is always the 'starter'


Mar 27, 2013, 5:49 PM

Outlawing divorce would be wrong, but no fault divorce kind of makes a hash of the whole "life long commitment" thing, and makes marriage all about how the couple feels about each other.

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I think that might have the reverse effect you want though..


Mar 27, 2013, 6:03 PM

I think fewer people would then get married which would negatively impact society.

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maybe...


Mar 27, 2013, 6:06 PM

but it all points back to the effects of the sexual revolution in the 60s. Intellectually, I can see how much damage it did to our marriage culture, but then again, I do enjoy a few of its consequences...

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I'm not sure what damage has actually been done...


Mar 27, 2013, 6:15 PM

but I agree with your last sentence. Especially if somehow the Yoga Pants phenomenon can be traced back to the 60s.

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there are many filings done under


Mar 27, 2013, 6:08 PM [ in reply to Re: The minority who feels oppressed is always the 'starter' ]

"no fault" just to avoid making an ugly situation worse.

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Your sentiments are understandable.


Mar 28, 2013, 12:45 PM [ in reply to Re: The minority who feels oppressed is always the 'starter' ]

But it's not the state's business to determine why people should marry, or divorce.

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I think it would be because of a literal interpretation


Mar 27, 2013, 5:11 PM

and belief in the Bible as the infallible word of God. I could be wrong, but I think the Bible, when taken as such, is typically believed to regard homosexuality as a sin, thus a homosexual marriage would not be approved by God.

Divorce is a slightly grayer area, I think, but is generally believed to be okay in the eyes of God under certain circumstances.

I think those who oppose gay marriage would also argue that while they generally do not approve of divorce and realize it is a major problem in our society, it is already legal, and legalizing gay marriage would just make things worse.

Your question may be a rhetorical one, and I don't have any social science to offer, but I think that is it in a nutshell.

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here's my take...


Mar 27, 2013, 5:14 PM

if you are in LOVE and go into a church and do the whole religious thing then you are married.
If you stand in front of a judge then its an law agreement.

If the churches wont "marry" some people, sorry, thats religion for you.
But the law shouldn't be saying no to two adults who want to share there life.

Then when divorce time comes, well the law agreement should be breakable like any other agreement and well married folks would just be screwed LOL.

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Deer ghey peeple. Be careful what you ask for, you might get


Mar 28, 2013, 1:09 PM

it.

Somehow I think the joy and celebration will diminish when your boy toy decides to divorce you and gets half of your stuff, as decided by a judge.

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